Deep Connection

A Course and Community*

"To give love is to receive love." Sydney Banks

*Single People Only



Looking for healthy, happy, loving, supportive, caring, emotionally connected relationships?

This program was created to elicit insights that will change your world.

Deep Connection - A Course and Community by Lori Carpenos of 3 Principles Therapy Art

Do you wish you could connect with like-minded people, on a deeper level, for  companionship, or collaboration, or for travel, or maybe even romance?  I’m here to help you improve your relational intelligence.

Are you tired of poor communication, feeling disregarded, narcissistic behaviors, getting stood up or ghosted or are you repeating old patterns?

What’s Included


Insights change the way we see things.

And that changes how we show up in the world.

Let’s face it…

It’s not always easy being single in a world that seems to be made for couples.

Deep Connection Course - Third-Wheel Fatigue Pic

The course is designed for you to uncover what’s been in your blindspot, holding you back, through insights you will gain.

Insights into the inside-out nature of life takes the sting out of former pitfalls, like rejections for example, and the desire to blame yourself or anyone else.

-- Lori Carpenos, LMFT


Prepared for a paradigm shift?

According to Pew Research over 31% of the adult population is currently single, but no (wo)man is an island. There is simply no replacement for human connection, especially during these difficult times in our history.

Are you ready to open your heart up to love and connection again?

I’d been on countless dates with the wrong men.. who I tried to make the right one… not a very good idea!! 

I suffered over rejections, I blamed myself, I blamed him… or his mother, I even blamed the Universe. 

I longed for love and romance but most of all, I longed for connection….Until…

I learned about the power of thought to understand how my experiences get created in the first place, and I had insights into how I had been conditioned to believe things that were actually getting in my way, big time…

Like when I woke up to the fact that I was the product of the fairy-tale Cinderella mythology. I didn’t realize that I was acting out of that programming - no one could ever be good enough if they didn’t match up to my idea of who my prince will be… I know it sounds crazy, but I’m here to tell you - wait until you wake up to what’s been lurking in your blind spot - it’s most humbling!  


Your Deep Connection Guide

Lori Carpenos, LMFT

Lori Carpenos is a therapist and 3 Principles Practitioner.

I have a special interest in helping people navigate single life with less shame, and more grace and ease, because of something I learned that was immensely valuable to me.

Several readers of “The Secret of Love,” asked me to run an online course. I agreed because when you find something so useful and valuable you have to share it.

So we ran some focus groups, to see what other single people were troubled by, and we discovered that there were many similar experiences.

Read more about Lori here…

Lori’s Book & Web Series

The Secret of Love is a compilation of amazing stories from couples whose relationships improved or completely turned around just by being pointed within, toward their true nature. These couples began to see how they were contributing to their problems from insights gained as they were learning. They saw how they could work with the force of nature, rather than against it.


Join The Deep Connection Course & Community for $347

Includes 50 lessons; PDFs, and video interviews with people who turned their dating life into successful long-term marriages after they learned about the Principles that explain the inside-out nature of life; along with 6 group meetings on zoom that will be recorded, and a membership site for graduates of the course!

Here are some other benefits:

You will SEE how to make better choices and bring out the best in yourself and others

If you are currently feeling disappointed, hopeless, maybe even experiencing a rejection, this will disappear, as the result of experiencing your own resiliency, during this course.

You’ll find your old negative views of love and companionship dissipate

You’ll discover the old conditioned, learned ideas that have held you back and kept you from creating deeper connections with the people you would like to connect with.