
Lori’s Musings
The Unexpected Freedom of Separate Realities in Relationships
We all live in our own separate realities, shaped throughout our lives by the stories we’ve heard, and the stories we tell ourselves; all personally distorted views we’ve adopted without question. These separate realities can lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and a sense of disconnection in our relationships. We create expectations, comparisons, and judgments, often leading to feelings of inadequacy.