We all live in our own separate realities, shaped throughout our lives by the stories we’ve heard, and the stories we tell ourselves; all personally distorted views we’ve adopted without question. These separate realities can lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and a sense of disconnection in our relationships. We create expectations, comparisons, and judgments, often leading to feelings of inadequacy.

In the past I would have been on a pity party writing my woes in a journal. Today I am writing to share the best kept secret about how to truly thrive in life, no matter what your situation or circumstance is.